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Friend, fraternity big looks back on memories of Rebecca with pride and gratitude

I remember the first conversation we ever had at Phi Sigma Pi's speed dating recruitment event. We talked about her passion for the environment. Traveling to Africa. The woes of having untamable, frizzy hair.

Yep, I thought. There's my Little.

Becca and I got to know each other over weekly dinners at Martin Dining Hall and the occasional weekend Bagel and Deli run. Always a Miami bagel for me; always a healthy portion of sprouts on hers.

She was a girl with an incredible breadth of talent-from event planning, working with others, cooking, making beautiful clothes… She was the one of the most motivating individuals I've ever had the pleasure of knowing. She had so much going for her.

Becca talked about wanting to open a restaurant one day that only served food that was raised and cultivated responsibly. She would handle the food and I the restaurant design.

She graciously planned a trip to That Guy's Farm last fall so our fraternity could learn more about the work-and the place- she loved so much. We all came away with a new appreciation for our food and for the amazing young lady in our organization.

She filled our chapter and our university with laughter and smiles that were hard to not be affected by. She will always be the only person I know who can rock ducky pajama pants uptown.

Which is why I can't even begin to wrap my head around the idea that this remarkable girl has been killed. That word makes me shudder and my insides scrunch up in convoluted knots. It doesn't belong in this world-in my world.

Because Becca was so much more than that. She was passionate. She was dedicated. She was downright joyous. And I refuse to let that foul word claim her.

I am proud to call this girl my Little, but I am even more honored to call her my friend.

"Brothers are we" in life and beyond.

Love always,

Your Big <3

Alicia Auhagen

Phi Sigma Pi will be hosting a fundraiser at Insomnia Cookies Feb. 17 in her honor. All proceeds will go to the Rebecca C. Eldemire BEEPS foundation