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Soph slump not so bad

Column: Say Anything

By Danielle Zawadzki

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Published: Wednesday, April 27, 2005

Updated: Sunday, February 14, 2010

I am almost done with my sophomore year of college. Wow. Not only am I halfway through college and two years closer to getting a real job, but I have also acquired only half of the debt from numerous student loans that have been accumulating in my name since the day I signed my soul over to Miami. I'm suffering through the sophomore slump big time right now, and wondering how I'm going to make it through the next two years, especially if they continue at the lightning pace of this year. Despite my exhaustion from going strong for two semesters, I have to say that I think I have changed the most as a person this past year. I've learned a lot through the relationships I have formed, and perfected the arts of responsibility and perseverance. In addition to all that adult crap, I have started to drink bottled water and go to the Rec Center on a regular basis, two things I never thought I would do. I feel healthier and more active, and the best part is, I still get to eat! Screw the sophomore 20... it's a sad reality, but who really keeps track after freshmen year? I've learned how to run on five hours of sleep or less, and then take naps at any time during the day to get rid of the hallucinations that a person who runs on five hours of sleep for more than a month may begin to experience. I started dating a new guy at the beginning of this year, and I managed to trick him into being my boyfriend, using my dazzling smile and girl next door appeal. I've gotten kicked in the ass by love many times over this year, mostly by the boyfriend, but so far, we're still together. Someone really should have warned me how hard it is to maintain a relationship in college. I've learned how to stay in on the weekends and do my homework, not by choice, of course, but from the call of duty - literally. I am a resident assistant this year, which has also taught me another valuable lesson: once an RA, always an RA. I can't go anywhere without running into one of my residents drunk and shouting across the street uptown, "That's my RA!" A lot has changed this year that I hadn't anticipated, but luckily, some things have stayed the same as well. Jimmy John's is still the most wonderful tasting food that God ever created, especially if you grab it on the way home from the clubs at 2:30 a.m. Extra-strength Tylenol still tops my list of things that every college student must have. I still love to go dancing uptown, although now I go much more infrequently because my dancing partners have been reduced to one of my good friends who attended my all-girls high school with me, and my boyfriend, whom I have conveniently broken of the "I'd rather die than go dancing" attitude. I'm still the same person I always was; I hold on to grudges and the past; I'm emotional, impatient and non-confrontational. I'm still coping with my secret sorority envy. I still don't own a North Face jacket and I still believe that love is the only experience that makes life worth living. Am I wiser, or just older? I'm not exactly sure of the answer yet, but at least I have two more years to try and figure it out.

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